I never expected that a friend would asked me how much, I think, a simple wedding will cost. In my group, only one knotted early and was my bestfriend. People are asking me when I will get married. But how can I say my side?

I’m ready to get married if it all matters with the heart. But I am more concern about the future, about attaining my personal goals and ambition. Am I that stupid to prioritize myself? I am not being selfish; I just don’t want to regret things in the future.

I hope you will find our conversation entertaining. But beyond it, I hope you will see my side and other.

*ym conversation
FRIEND: kablo ka pila mag minyo?
FRIEND: hehee
ME: nag plano na diay mo?
ME: ka early oi
FRIEND: AKO PA lang
FRIEND: swempre
FRIEND: early jud mag plan
ME: i mean ba... 25 pa man ta
FRIEND: 1 year na baya mi
ME: dapat mga 30 years old
FRIEND: yup 25 n ta
FRIEND: ngeks tiguwang na kaayo ang 30
FRIEND: di na ma enjoy ang baby ana
ME: ahhhhhh! grabe baby naman giistoryahan
ME: kuyawa oI!
FRIEND: hehe
FRIEND: mao man sulti pud sa kuya nako
FRIEND: kay kung 30 n ta
FRIEND: tiguwang na kaayo ta ana
ME: 30 pa gani ko gusto magminyo
ME: ngeeeeeeeee
FRIEND: ehehhe
FRIEND: ngeks
FRIEND: dugaya ui
ME: kylangan pako maka adto ug abroad or US or UK
ME: before mag minyo
ME: too early to get married oi
ME: chakas
ME: lisud kaau ang panahon karon
ME: well...
ME: if both of you gusto na then go
ME: when man mo magpakasal?
FRIEND: hehe
FRIEND: plan pa nako
FRIEND: gusto ko next year or next2 year
FRIEND: basta 26 or 27 ko mag minyo
ME: hahahaha
ME: grabe
ME: bata pa imo uyab ana oi
ME: 23 or 24?
FRIEND: tiguwang na na ui
FRIEND: atong mama pila edad nag minyo?
FRIEND: gege
ME: akong mama? 21 ata.. tapos papa nko 19
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: tanawa
FRIEND: bata kaayo
ME: lahi bya ang panahon dati ug karon
FRIEND: same lang man
FRIEND: ang naglahi lang
FRIEND: ang tao
ME: hala! gusto na jud ka magminyo ba
FRIEND: kay sa panahon karon kay greedy kaayo
ME: hehehe
ME: greedy diay nang gusto nmo na ayos na future?
ME: na dli usa ka gusto magminyo ky daghan pa ka plano sa imong sarili.... greedy diay na?
FRIEND: di man na mao ang pasabot nako
FRIEND: hehehe
ME: hehehe
ME: unsa diay?
FRIEND: buings
FRIEND: di na mano
FRIEND: ang gina mean nako an greedy kay ang mga tao na ang gina atobang puro kwarta
FRIEND: kanang di pa ka ready kay di pa gyud na
FRIEND: hehehe
ME: unsay connection ana sa sayo ug dli sayo magminyo?
FRIEND: wala man
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: kayu nag ana man ka dati na lahi ang panahon dati
FRIEND: hehehe
ME: hala ka oi
ME: kaminyoon na jud ka
ME: kamo?
ME: grabe
FRIEND: ako gusto na ko
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: ikaw?
ME: nag istorya namo sa girl?
FRIEND: n storya na
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: ana sya sa karon di pa sya ready
ME: dli pa lagi ko...bata pa ko oi. I mean, dghan pa jud kaau ko ug plano sa kinabuhi. Dliman gud ko gusto magsisi in the end
FRIEND: ana ko plan ko mag minyo after 2 years
FRIEND: ana sya dugaya ui
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: pero yes naa ka idea tagpila?
ME: 100k
FRIEND: tanan2x na sya?
FRIEND: bongga na?
ME: in-ana.. kanang so-so na kasal.. dli bongga
ME: in-ana ang gastuson
FRIEND: hehe
FRIEND: kung mag minyo ko yes
FRIEND: muadto ka?
ME: if naa ko invitation
ME: alangan
FRIEND: kung wala?
ME: kon wla, d dli.. it means dli ko invited
FRIEND: heheeh
FRIEND: amaw
FRIEND: kamo pa di man timo malimtan
ME: asus
FRIEND: cguro mas daghan ko babae na mga bisita
FRIEND: heheheh
ME: kaminyuon na jud ka bah
ME: grabe mura kog gigitik
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: cge lang gud
FRIEND: si kitoy gani nag minyo na
ME: ha?
ME: taysa.. minyo na?
ME: as in humana ug kasal?
ME: kanus-a lang?
FRIEND: dugay na ui
FRIEND: wala ka kabalo?
FRIEND: tsk tsk tsk
FRIEND: july yata or june
ME: kabalo naga plan cla
ME: pero wla ko kabalo humana
ME: atik.. niadto ka?
FRIEND: wala man ko invitation
FRIEND: hehehe
FRIEND: wala ko niadto
FRIEND: naa sa frndster nya
FRIEND: naa didto pix nila
ME: atik
ME: tanawon nako karon
ME: ayy unya diay
ME: chakas man ka oi
ME: mga what month ka magminyo kaya puhon?
FRIEND: gusto ko mga august pud
FRIEND: same date kung kanusa ko nya gusogot
ME: oiiiiiiiiii
ME: grabe ha
ME: ngano ka naka decide na mag minyo?
FRIEND: na feel lang nako na gusto na gyud ko
ME: so, ready ka sa tanan na magchange sa imong life?
FRIEND: yup
FRIEND: ready na ko
FRIEND: hehehe
ME: i'm proud of you my FRIEND
ME: best wishes
FRIEND: hehe
FRIEND: wala pa gnai
FRIEND: hehehe
ME: diha na na padulong oi

Why Am I Afraid of Marriage? My answer, I’m not ready yet.

not ready yet.

Labels: commitment, love, marriage, relationship

posted by Yesha Gee at Wednesday, September 26, 2007-