everyone of us, has our own negative sides ... its part of who we are, the person that we are ... being accepted by others despite your unlovable side makes you "lucky" ... lucky to be understood, accepted, appreciated, and loved ... i hope next time, you won't brag (sorry for the term) about your negas...mura man gud proud na hinuon ka ... bleehhhh

is all your cards laid out in the open now simple...?
bitaw..i also have this side of me that most of the time im not really proud of...but its a part of us..although i know my family have accepted me and all of me...its my prerogative to control it for the sake of those I love and those who loves me..me beeing accepted and loved for who i am doesnt mean i dont need to change..being a brat may sound sosyal at times (well for me that is) but it wouldnt sound good if my family hears it...
again i believe in balance...give and take ...

there is sunrise and sunset, day and night, yin yang....etc.

during physics' days we got "in every action there is an equal reaction" concept, which is true.

normal lng jud ng negative sa life.it depends on how we look on it...finding the brighter part of it.just dont look on /feel it too much, bka it will overpower you.kaya let's talk the + side na pud! =)

tama, balance jud! =)

"there is a secret godliness in everyone"

If you guys think i'm proud of it, perhaps i can say a bit yes. But do not worry, i know how to balance (i suppose you guys can attest to it).

I have no bitterness inside, the entry is to show the negative side of me, since i looked at it as positive. I'm not a spoiled brat and i never grew up that way. I use to make my own ways to have what i wanted, all at a very young age.

Beyond that, i don't think my negatives will pull me down. My negatives helped me (in so many ways). I am not proud of it but i can boast that my negatives helped me out with my tough life.

Yes, musica, i thank all the people who were there for me.. and i'm so lucky to have them in my life.

=)

there's just certain things that make us who we are.

it's just nice that we, deep within ourselves knows that these things composes our being...

nice post. ;)

psst. it's one thing to be independent but you don't have to be disobedient to your mom to be independent.

knowing your short comings is a good start, i think. at least you know which qualities/ characteristics you should adjust.

pero knowing your negatives and still not changing/ toning them down just to show that you don't care about what other people say is not good. it's actually caring about what they say by proving that you don't care about what they say. o diba.hehe.

all of us have our own up's and down's in life..
live life the fullest and be yourself always..
learn from your past..
experience is always the best teacher.. nice post simple..
i can relate to this too..

@mudburn
I honestly don't have a clue who you are --- but thanks for posting and thank you for giving the 'negative' a bright light. =p

@Shi
"it's actually caring about what they say by proving that you don't care about what they say."
^ ohhh, i'll take that cos partly i'm hit!

@jayree
Yeah, i am normal right? haha, your post just told so. So, i think, i'm fine. Thanks to life.. and thanks to your post.

Anyway, i'm lazy to login so i used 'other' instead. =p