It’s easy for us to tell to a person – sounding like a curse – that someday, this will happen to you. I have encountered the same occurrence to different friends – not once, not twice, it’s more than you can think about. Numbers of my friend’s population – who said that magnificent word – will eat up most of my friend’s list.

So now, what is this ‘Someday’ that makes a significant impact – if not a huge blow – among my friends? ‘Someday’ is common to me quite before that word brunt me. When a friend is hurt – and crying – they always tell me, ‘Someday, he’ll gonna pay for this’, ‘Someday, I’ll get over him more than he expects to see’, ‘Someday, he’ll gonna realize how foolish of him to let me go’ and all those sorts of.

The word ‘Someday’ isn’t that meaningful to me – not by then – I’ve heard Nina’s song. Girls can actually relate to the song and girls can get strength from it. The song shows us – how weak we are in love; how foolish we are to indirectly hope for a broken relationship; and how strong we are to face the hurt as well.

I have used that same word many times in my colorful – if not romantic – life. Many times I cried alone cos I’m hurt. Many times I weep cos I can’t contain the pain. Many times I blurted out I’m going to have a good life – though I really don’t know where to start cos I’m howling inside.

Maybe those someday will happen – but it will happen unexpectedly and surprisingly. I only listen to my friend’s and to my self’s sentiments. We – women – are mostly the one who suffered because of love. It’s predestined as if it is already been programmed. But life is so playful that we’re still wanting for relationships and that – we risk for a new love story in our life and make the deal.

Someday is next to my “if only”. Mountains of these “if only” will just make me say ‘Someday’.

For all my friends – brokenhearted, down or not – the “someday” we always used – to curse, to pray, to hope – are still there. I’m hoping that someday those ‘somedays’ will set us free and will make us happy.